Last
week Amy & I received a letter from the Sisters of Saint Francis in
Rochester that Sister Carlan Kraman passed away in April. She passed away peacefully while surrounded by her beloved Sisters.
Sister
Carlan was my Spiritual Director for four years. When I first started as the pastor of the
Presbyterian church in Plainview it was important to me to set up a support
system for my ministry. Part of that
support system was to find a Spiritual Director. I called Assisi Heights and asked for a
Spiritual Director. They put me in touch
with Carlan. The first time I met her
she asked me in a gruff manor, “What do you want in Spiritual Direction?” I explained to her that I wanted to grow in
my relationship with God and have a place to process what was happening in my
congregation. “That sounds good,” she
replied. “Let’s get started.”
And
so we did. What developed between us was
more a spiritual friendship than spiritual direction. On two Fridays a month I would drive over to
Assisi Heights and visit with Carlan.
Often she would do most of the talking.
She would share what was going on in her life, with the Sisters of Saint
Francis, her opinions (often critical) of the Catholic church and events of the
world. For Carlan sitting down and
reading the “National Catholic Reporter” with Minnesota Public Radio playing in
the background was enough to satisfy her very creative mind.
Sister
Carlan was a gifted writer. She taught
English in a secondary setting for thirty-two years. It was important to Carlan that Mother Alfred
Moes received credit along with the Mayo Brothers for the start of the Mayo
Clinic. She wrote a terrific biography
of Mother Alfred called, “Odyssey in Faith.”
She gave me a copy which I proudly have in my library.
Because
of Carlan’s work St. Mary’s Hospital had a display acknowledging the role of
Mother Alfred and the Franciscan Sisters in starting the Mayo Clinic.
Sister
Carlan and I remained friends after I stopped seeing her for Spiritual
Direction. I frequently would lead
retreats at Assisi Heights with people from the Presbyterian Church. While there I would find Carlan at the
cafeteria. Even though she didn’t know I
was coming, she would greet me with enthusiasm and quickly start a conversation
with me about the issues of the day.
It
was a honor for Amy and me to have Carlan read Scripture at our wedding. Like me she dreamed and prayed for the day
when the walls between Catholics and Protestants would come tumbling down.
Carlan
loved being a Franciscan, and she loved her Franciscan Sisters. She enjoyed telling me stories when we were
together about Saint Francis. Because of
her I’ve read many biographies about Francis and think of him as an important
part of my own spiritual formation. When
one of the Sisters at Assisi Heights celebrated her Golden Jubilee or passed
away, Carlan would take time to share with me the significance of her life.
In
concluding a beautiful obituary about Carlan, Sister Mary Lonan Reilly wrote,
“Bon
Voyage, Sister Carlan, dear. You who
loved to travel and to explore new vistas must be overwhelmed as you are
immersed in the many marvels of Eternity.
Not the least of these must be really experiencing our loving and
faithful God and singing (on pitch according to the notes” ‘Forever I will sing
of the goodness of our God.’
Indeed,
bon voyage, Carlan. You shared the
goodness of God in many, many ways. The
earth is richer because you traveled upon it.