Last
week I had the opportunity to attend Leadership Institute at Church of the
Resurrection in Leawood, Kansas. I’ve had the opportunity to attend this
conference every year for at least twenty years and have written about it in
the past. This year I was able to take Kayla Flanagan,
the Children & Youth Ministries Director at Chain of Lakes, and Destiny Anderson to Leadership Institute with me.
I love this conference. I wish the PC(USA) had a church who would do this
type of conference. I’m hoping that the conference that the Presbyterian Church
Growth Network shares could become a similar type of experience for Presbyterians
as Leadership Institute is for Methodists.
The
music at Leadership Institute is fabulous. At the beginning of worship their
Praise Band leads music. It is powerful to have 1,300 people
singing with all of their heart. That never gets old. Sometimes they make
mistakes in terms of having microphones on and in the movement of slides. The
fact that they make mistakes is probably reassuring to most of the people at
the conference—and certainly is reassuring to me. Even Church of the Resurrection who is “sold
out” to quality makes mistakes.
This
year Leadership Institute had a bit more intrigue as Adam Hamilton, the founding
pastor of the church, spoke. The intrigue was not that he spoke; instead most of
us were curious to hear his thoughts on running for Senate in Kansas while
still serving as pastor at Church of the Resurrection. His role with the church
has changed significantly since he announced he is running for Senate and would
certainly change if he won his race.

On
Wednesday evening he shared a talk that had many stories about his running for
office. One story that has stayed with me is talking about visiting the Great
Ball of Twine in Cawker City, Kansas. Cawker City, Kansas is a very small town,
population of 457 as of the 2020 census. Adam shared how he had to encourage
his traveling entourage to go out of their way to see the great ball of twine.
And they did! He asked all of us to think about what the Great Ball of Twine is in each of our congregations. What is happening in our congregations or could happen that would compel people to drive
out of their way to visit?
The
Great Ball of Twine at Chain of Lakes is our outreach to people who identify as
spiritual refugees. At the church we think of a spiritual refugee as someone
who has had ran into problems with congregations. Church has not worked for
them. At Chain of Lakes we go out of our way to welcome people who have had
hard experiences in other congregations. We welcome them, we extend hospitality
in an extravagant way, we accept people where they are on their journey. It has
worked! Of course, we have many people at Chain of Lakes who are not spiritual
refugees. But it’s my experience that a person who is a spiritual refugee will
drive a long ways and out of their way to experience what Chain of Lakes is
offering.

The
workshops were excellent. In fact I would enjoy Leadership Institute even more
if an additional day of workshops were offered. The speakers were good on
Thursday, but the workshops on Wednesday were more helpful in ministry. I
attended workshops on AI, on strategic planning, on supervision of staff, and
one on their Kindness campaigns. I have many ideas that I’ll be bringing back.
The
final talk that our group heard shared by Magrey De Vega was one of the best
talks I’ve ever heard at Leadership Institute. He talked about the teachers
that each of us have. Three teachers he shared are our Inner Child, our Inner
Elder, and our Shadow self. He set up two chairs and modeled what a
conversation with each of these teachers would look like. For example, in
having a conversation with our Inner Child what would we tell our self at five
years old? What experiences would they have that we might share with them? And
then what could we learn from our five year old self? What would that child say
about some of the challenges that each of us are facing. Magrey acknowledged
that for some people the emotional trauma of this conversation is too high. And
indeed, some people had to leave the room while he was talking. The
conversation with their five-year-old self is too hard. The same powerful
conversations can happen with our Inner Elder and with our Shadow.
Our
team had to leave after Magrey’s talk, so we were not able to hear Adam
Hamilton’s final talk. I look forward to watching it on replay. In fact people
can purchase a replay of all of the workshops and the talks at resurrection.swoogo.com/sharechurchLI26/begin
One highlight of going to Kansas City is taking a tour of the neighborhood that I lived in when I was in 4th grade. My parents worked for Cross Lines and our family lived in Inner-City Kansas City, Kansas. This area is only twenty-five minutes or so from the church. I showed the group Stanley Elementary, the place where my family lived, the "housing projects" that are a hundred yards from where we lived, and the Methodist church in Armourdale (picture on the right) where my dad ran a day camp. The tour is like having a conversation with my 4th grade self!
A
special thanks to Church of the Resurrection for sharing Leadership Institute.
I look forward to taking an even larger group from Chain of Lakes next year.